NJWT writes:

You said, "The point was that a typical right-wing argument is that if you help people, there's no 'incentive for them to work hard.'"
And Dawn said, "I don't think it's right to write off a whole group of people as heartless because they have conservative beliefs. Most conservatives..... just believe it should be as part of programs that give them an incentive to work, and not mere handouts"

So in other words, you were right, but hypothetically it's wrong to generalize.